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Strenuous Part About Traveling No One Talks About

When you are traveling across the world, you try new things, meet people, visit several breath-taking places, and learn about different cultures then it’s all just over. Usually there is talk about leaving, why not about coming home?

We always talk about the difficult aspects when we’re away – searching for work, looking to make some real friends, learning new cultures, wrongly judging people – however, these are the things which you can go through. These low level experiences are forgotten and replaced by the high ones. It is very hard to say goodbye but you know they are inevitable, particularly when you book a flight for home. Such sad partings are renewed when you are reunited with your family and friends which you imagine while leaving in the first place.

You come back home, enjoy your reunions for a few days while catching up on stories and events, etc. You’re very popular the first few weeks but alas, it all goes away. They get used to you being around them, in your home, you lose all the popularity you had when you arrived. Then the routinely questions start: did you find a place to work at? What’re your plans? Are you seeing someone?

However, the depressing thing is once you’re done with all the obligatory visits after being away for so long; you’re in your childhood room then this thought hits you that nothing has changed. You’re pleased at the fact that all are happy, healthy, some have found new jobs, girlfriends or boyfriends, getting engaged, etc. then there’s a part of you which is eating you from the inside at “how much I have changed?” By change I don’t mean physically or appearance wise but by goes inside that mind of yours. The way you see things, your dreams and habits which you are happy about that you lost they are all changed and are now different than what and how they used to be. The new things are now of much more importance to you. You feel the need to discuss and share this feeling with everyone, you want them to recognize this but you don’t know how to describe how you feel when you let the past be past and force yourself to be in the present. You know that you’re feeling and thinking differently since you go through it every moment and day inside your mind, but how to reach out to others? How to communicate with them?

You’re angry, frustrated, feeling lost. There are times when you feel like it wasn’t worth all the effort due to the fact that nothing has changed, on the contrary you feel this is the only important thing you’ve done so far because it changed everything. Is there any safe haven from this aspect of traveling? The idea of trying to communicate this feeling to others is like a foreign language as they don’t understand how you actually feel and are going through.

Hence why you want to leave again after having your first experience traveling. It is known as the ‘travel bug’, however, it’s all about returning to a place where you can surround yourself with people you can interact or intermingle with. All the effort so that you know what it’s like to grow, experience, discover leave and return home again feeling more lost in your own hometown than you did in most foreign place you visited.

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Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Trust Super-Nice People

Got any friends who are so nice it’s unbelievable? Well, here’s what the jury had to say about people who pretend to be super nice. According to a new study, people who are overly polite are more likely to betray you. There are people you come across everyday who kiss up to you for no apparent reason. You might think you’re just that likeable but in reality, you’re not. Watch out! If they try to butter you up, this could be a sign that you should heed.

Faking kindness to win

There’s a huge difference between sickly sweet and someone who is genuinely nice. The key is to look for passive aggressive behaviors and mannerisms. People who pretend to be super nice put a nice front but underneath that nice front, there’s an insecure manipulative mess of a person. They fake kindness to win your heart.

Nice is not the same as loyal

The study involved participants who were asked to play a strategy game in which the players had to negotiate and form alliances using their diplomacy skills and it turned out people who acted overly nice were more likely to backstab their opponents. This pretty much suggests that you can get thrown off by someone who pretends to be overly nice.

Betrayal usually wear a smile

Words and smiles are more dangerous than the wars. Only territories are won by wars while games are won by words. According to the findings “Sudden changes in the balance of conversational attributes, such as positive sentiment, politeness or focus on future planning signal impending betrayal”. In other words, if someone starts being overly nice to you, it’s time to run.

Betrayal can be signaled by sudden changes

Researchers say that betrayal can be foreseen by the sudden changes in the language overly polite people use. Playing nice might be a good strategy but playing it safe can be even better.
Our hearts are not really that good at predicting betrayals but linguistic cues can indicate signs of betrayal. You can be gossiped, lied and stabbed in the back all in the same time by a friend who had a smile on their face. The same could also be said about an enemy who has been a known enemy for really long but decides to change their tune all of a sudden.

Not all that smiles is nice

They say always trust your instincts, if it suggests that something is wrong, them something actually is wrong. There are people out there who live to feed off of the kindness of others and there are also people who use this trait to make you drop your guard for their own means. It is a form of manipulation that we experience everyday but aren’t bothered enough to notice. Things aren’t always what they seem. There’s always two sides to a coin, you just need to flip it in a way that you get to see both the sides.

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13 Situations That Only Short Girls Can Relate To

Each person is unique – special in the individual capacity, and that’s how we are all meant to be. At Tapoos we respect and value who you are, however you are, as a human being. Everyone is stunning in their own way!

On the other hand, short girls would completely approve of when we say that carrying out a few particular activities can be highly taxing at times. The most effective and positive manner of tackling such potentially embarrassing circumstances is by focusing on the funny aspect of it. Like this girl whose words inspired us!

Reaching for the shelf in the kitchen makes cooking a trying chore on a daily!

I avoid looking at mirrors in market or roadsides, for I can’t even see my face!

Doing groceries is as much fun as wall climbing.

To go shopping is like being Jack in Jack in the beans stock.

Who needs to spend on socks when ma jeans got ‘em all covered yo?

Merry go round are my favorite ride cause they’re everywhere!

So what if I can’t see who’s playing? I hear the melodies, not look at them!

I’ll be here when you need someone to lean against

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You Think Homosexuality Is Not Natural? Think Again

Society has always held two views about homosexuality. One, the traditional view, says that it is an aberration, a mental disorder and unnatural. The other, a more modern view, says that homosexuality is a normal variant of human behavior and sexual orientation.

The Gay community has been gaining traction with their arguments based on scientific evidence. It is also being accepted and getting a softer look from the masses. But just like any other phenomenon of the modern age getting attention, the scientific evidence presented by gay advocacy organizations or individuals are often flawed or falsified.

This gives the traditional view holders a leverage with their claim of ‘normal’ behavior. But ‘normal’ behavior is based on the norms and customs of the age and time. What was considered normative behavior 100 years ago might get frowned upon today?

Homosexuality is actually normal and has existed throughout history. Or is it actually a disease? We will shed some light on this. But before we continue any further, we would like to tell you that we do not support or belong to any gay rights advocacy groups and neither do we belong to any anti-gay movement. We are just going to be logical about this issue of homosexuality.

1. Only humans engage in Homosexuality

Over 1000 species have been shown to engage in homosexuality and pair-bonding. These species include elephants, giraffes, pigeons, penguins, dolphins and many more.

2. Reproduction is the main purpose of sex.

Reproduction is not the only purpose of sex. Sexual intercourse may result in reproduction. Humans constantly engage in non-reproductive sexual intercourse with their spouse or partners. Sexual intercourse has a numerous other benefits. Studies have shown that it improves one’s ability to deal with stress, lowers blood pressure, boosts antibody production, burns calories, improves tissue repair and reduces cholesterol amongst other things.

People may engage in sexual intercourse and not have babies due to impotence or old age. Those couples are being sinful when they marry and have sex.

3. There is no proof of a gay gene.

This intentionally ignores that very few inherited conditions are the result of a single gene. Autism is also not associated with a single gene, but nobody claims that people choose to autistic. Sexual orientation cannot be tied down to a single gene.

4. Homosexuality is caused by childhood abuse or bad parenting

This is false. No scientific link has been established between childhood abuse or trauma and homosexuality. Also, upbringing cannot be blamed for homosexuality. Nothing can be blamed for homosexuality. There is nothing to blame.

5. Sexual orientation can be cured with therapy

People have been trying for a long time to ‘cure’ homosexuality with behavioral therapy. Furthermore, it usually does not result in anything. There have been very few cases where a change of behavior was reported, but none of them resulted in a change in sexual orientation. The president of Exodus International once said that close to 99.99% people reported no change to orientation when subjected to ex-gay therapy.

6. If everyone were gay, the human species would die out.

That is kind of true. But there are various other reasons, which if all of mankind was subjected to would result in complete annihilation of mankind. Hence, there is no harm in some people not being interested in the opposite gender for reproduction. We also cannot ignore the fact that artificial insemination is scientifically possible.

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5 Typical Family Members

You come into this world with the best kind of friends you could ever get. A caring dad who goes out to work to provide you with everything you wish for. A loving mom who puts you before anything to shape your future and groom you to be the best ever. An adorable granny who does every silly thing just to make you smile. A wise and humorous grandpa who teaches you a lot with his wise lessons. Cousins, aunts and uncles who could literally take a bullet for you.

These days family reunions are almost non-existent. As everybody seems to be busy with their own lives. However, everybody still wants to belong. There are members in every family who are famous for their traits. Some are up for goofy fun all the time, some will strike you as a gossip every time, then there are some who brag about their success every time you meet them at a family gathering.

This article rounds up some of our most favorite typical family members you will spot at every family gathering. We bet you can’t get enough of them every time you see them at a family get together.

1. The Rescuer Cousin

That one cousin who you look up to, every time you find yourself in trouble. And no! He’s simply not just a relative, he’s more than just that. When all your aunts are teaming up on you asking you to get married. He’s the one who will rescue you. You both do nothing but laugh.

2. The Funny Uncle

He’s the guy who’s older than all of you but looks younger than his age and a confirmed bachelor. He constantly cracks jokes. The most favorite uncle of the entire nephew-niece squad. It’s really hard not to laugh at his jokes. He’s funny, he’s cool, he’s caring all at the same time. He gives you free rides, takes you out for movies every weekend and manages to tempt you with free hamburgers every fucking time you’re on a diet.

3. The Caretaker Aunt

The super cheesey lady in the whole family who doesn’t mind you flirting with her. You can tell her all your secrets and expect her to keep them to herself without a shadow of doubt. She’s the one who’ll understand your situation when everybody else fails to do so. She’ll blow you pecks for every little favour you do for her. You can crack dirty jokes in front of her without any fear of getting scolded. Even if you sneeze, you know she’ll end up taking you to a doctor because she cares!

4. The Spoiled Baby

The youngest spoiled brat in the entire family whose only job is to complain about every little thing. They act like they are always treated unfairly when in reality, they aren’t. They are just little attention seeking morons who want nothing but attention. They’ll hurt themselves and later blame it on you because oh they are the youngest. If you hit them with a tissue paper they’ll cry hell as if you’ve popped their eyes with an arrow.

5. The Forever Young Granny

The youngest lady in the house. Drinks the most at any gathering. She dances with you, sings with you. There’s no way on earth you can convince her she’s growing older because age is just a number. You’ll often spot her making a dirty joke on your grandpa. At every gathering, she’s the celebrity and she’s the boss. She cares for every member in the family, tries her best to keep peace at home.

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This Is What Happens When You Are Dehydrated

View the video below to find out why your body – and mind – needs plenty of water.

It is often recommended to have eight glasses of water per day – and a lot more if we are exercising. But exactly how much is the exact quantity needed? And how harmful could dehydration prove to be?

In the following clip, Dallas Campbell experiences a tiresome workout without taking a sip to drink. When he’s done, he has lost sufficient liquid for his blood to become more thick – bringing about his heart to pump more and more in order to compensate for it. However, that is the minimum of his worries as compared to the striking effects with his mental response times – outcomes you might need to consider when you return home from the gym.

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Ancient Soup Remedy Revealed That Can Change Your Life

We all desire to look like celebrities, but we often overlook their efforts that go into achieving beauty, and fitness. In the era of new age medicine, scientists have found an incredible ancient remedy that can help us achieve those beauty and fitness milestones. So what is this supernatural tincture? (Trust me you will be awestruck) Bone broth! Yes bone broth; it has been considered an amazing healer. A good broth can wake up the dead even (Seriously).

I will tell you why I vote for this supernatural tonic: initially I read about Bone Broth as a very effective healer of gut problems. Then, I researched more and more about bone broth, and found it to be the secret of many reputed diet teams. The list of benefits has just started. The Asian butchery shops, are where, I found out-top ways to make bone broth from beef knuckles, chicken necks, oxtails, soup bones, and feet.

After my research and experience here is why you must try bone broth soup:

1. Effective for your gut.

Only one cup a day is a big relief for your leaky gut syndrome, and it is also very good for non-leaky guts as it protects. The gelatin in the bone broth helps seal up Colonic Diverticulum or Diverticulitis.

2. Safeguard for your joints.

It is confirmed that bone broth has glucosamine too, which is a basic element for curing pain in joints. The broth also contains a mass of perks that helps keeping your joints jubilant, fit, and pain free (my mother is now a big fan of bone broth as she suffered a lot from joint pains)

3. Look young and appealing.

Bone broth is rich of collagen; we see in all kinds of “plumping” products. But, see, bone broth is safe because it is natural and inexpensive; makes your skin, hair, and nails look just as glowing (try it for yourself).

4. Silence is the sleep that nourishes wisdom.

It is a cluster of secrets. One of such amazing secrets is the glycine, and I found that it relieves people helping them sleep well, and in improving their memory.

5. Strengthen your Immune system.

Bone broth is a supernatural food; it has unlimited benefits. This ancient soup remedy has a high concentration of reserves. It strengthens your immune system. Even people with immune-disorders experienced relief, by drinking bone broth regularly.

6. Solid bones.

A deficiency of Phosphorus, calcium, and magnesium is an abnormality in the bones; makes one feel intensely uncomfortable. The broth helps you with the vital structuring blocks, for strong bones.

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7 Super Simple Smoothies That Help Lose Weight

Are you looking for secrets to losing weight? You’re worried that your body stores more calories and burns less when you’re trying to slim down? The secret is right there in your kitchen. Nutrient-rich, green smoothies loaded with fruits and veggies are ideal fat-burning foods. All you need to know is the art to making a weight-loss smoothie. Smoothies help you burn extra calories and stay physically fit by augmenting your metabolic rate. Get your blender out, start your morning by sipping one of these nutrients loaded smoothies and be your healthy self once again!

1. Proteins smoothie

Blend a banana, leaves from kale, pears, lemon, cucumber and hemp powder together in a blender. You can also add silverbeet, water and incorporate any other fruit you like. Refrigerate it before jump-starting your morning with this high-fibre drink. The drink helps with the elimination of toxins from body.

Servings: 1
¼ very ripe banana
½ c fat-free milk
½ Tsp lemon
¼ c pears
1 medium sized cucumber
½ Tbsp Hemp powder
2 kale leaves

Combine ingredients in a blender. Process until smooth.

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2. Ginger smoothie

A non-green delicious drink that will help you revitalize your energy level. Blend ginger with oats and yogurt, mix it with berries and gulp it down. This delicious blend will help you with vital nutrients you need in the body.

Servings: 1
1 Tsp ginger, grated
¼ cup oats
2 tablespoons chia seeds, soaked for about 10 minutes
1 cup blueberries

Add liquid to the blender. Blend on high for 30 seconds or until the smoothie is creamy.

3. Papaya smoothie

If you feel like you’re not getting your essential nutrients from your diet, this nutrients packed, eye catchy cocktail will help you with absorbing nutrients from your diet. Blend papaya and cucumber in a blender and debloat your digestive system. This delicious combo will help you with indigestion.

Serving: 1
½ cup papaya
¼ cucumber (with skin)
1 cup chilled coconut water (or 4 coconut water ice cubes and 1/2 cup chilled coconut water)
4 ice cubes

Puree everything in a blender until smooth.

4. Mango smoothie

Iron packed drink loaded with mango, water and spirulina is a good pick if you want to kick start your day with a big boost of energy. This super fruit smoothie leaves you with a serene feeling. Add water for better blending.

Serving: 1
2 cups of chopped mango (Frozen)
1 c. coconut milk
1-1.5 Tsp of spirulina powder

Puree until fully blend.

See also: Spend Relaxing Weekend… A Possibility or Not?

5. Blueberry smoothie

By adding nutrient rich blueberries into your blender, you can ensure that this cocktail nourishes your body inside out. The addition of ice to this smoothie can clamp your blood vessels, so, refrain from adding it. Rest your body with this gentle yet delicious smoothie.

Servings: 1
1 c skim milk
1 c frozen unsweetened blueberries
1 Tbsp cold-pressed organic flaxseed oil

Combine milk and blueberries in blender, and blend for 1 minute. Transfer to glass, and stir in flaxseed oil.

6. Citrus smoothie

Re-energize yourself with the perfect blend of fresh oranges and the grapes. The spinach loaded with antioxidants boosts your energy level. It helps you with essential calcium you might be missing in your daily diet. Begin your day with increased energy levels to reclaim your health.

Serving: 1
1 1/2 cups grapes — frozen
1 — 2 oranges
2 cups spinach
1/4 — 1/2 cup filtered water

Place all of the ingredients in a blender and blend until smooth

7. Spinach smoothie

The fiber rich combination of spinach and avocado will leave you feel healthier. Indulge in this lip-smacking, delightful drink and you will never want it to end. This perfect blend will help reduce the intake of meals in your routine and by making you feel full.

2 cups chopped spinach
1 apple unpeeled, chopped
½ c Avocado, chopped

Combine ingredients in a blender and puree until smooth.

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Spend Relaxing Weekend… A Possibility or Not?

You leave office at 9pm on a Friday – however your last email is logged at 3am. You accept conference calls on weekend, wake up in frosty sweats over approaching due dates – even during sleep you talk in business language. By Monday morning, you seem as though you’ve spent the entire weekend slouched over their laptop, wired on espresso. It’s hard to believe you ever left the office or simply had time to spend relaxing weekend.

Why is it that people just simply can’t spend relaxing weekend?

Over the globe, the innovation to make work accessible 24 hours a day is adding towards anxiety. The American Institute of Stress assessments work stress costs the US economy about $300 billion in lost productivity consistently. As per exploration by Expedia, just 53% of workers come back feeling rested after they’ve spend relaxing weekend.

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In the UK there’s Saturday syndrome, the puzzling inclination of employees to fall sick in their free time – thought to be the outcome of anxiety withdrawal. In the US there’s the 60-hour working week – a practice known to double the risk of a heart attack. In Japan they’ve even created a word for the issue; karoshi, or death by burnout.

For standard office employees like Samantha King, a project manager in the financial services industry in London, even the demonstration of kicking back has ended up unpleasant. “If you don’t have a Facebook status or Instagram post – hashtag doing this, hashtag doing that – if you stay away from social media for half a day, people are like ‘are you OK?’”

See also: 7 Super Simple Smoothies That Help Lose Weight

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Yet, for each groaning partner struggling through Monday. There’s the high-powered superstar who breezes in looking absurdly fresh – even with a much greater workload. Why is it that, while a few people excel, others can’t spend relaxing weekend?

When you bring work-related stress home with you, you’re keeping that physiological response activated. If that continues – well, it’s not good for you,” says Jennifer Ragsdale, a psychologist at University of Tulsa, Oklahoma.

For a considerable length of time, research has analyzed the relative behaviour of weekends. These are spent getting up to speed with work to those lying in an obscured room or going sailing. But this may overlook the main issue, says Ragsdale. “Two people experiencing the same thing, they are going to react to it in different ways.”

Bouncing back

The subject of bouncing back from stress initially aroused Ragsdale’s enthusiasm back in 2011. When she saw recuperation gap among her companions, she’s been endeavoring to reach to it’s bottom from that point onward.

For her study, 183 employees from different businesses reacted to online surveys on a Sunday evening. In which they specify how they’d spend relaxing weekend – and how they felt accordingly. Exercises were arranged into either low exertion (taking a shower) or business related (personal paperwork, replying to emails).

Next, the same employees were tested to decide their enthusiastic nature. They were given a rundown of positive (enthusiastic, interested) and negative (distressed, upset) sentiments, and asked to report how they’d generally feel.

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The World’s First Head Transplant by Victor Frankenstein

Victor Frankenstein famous for plotting human head transplant made a monster. His exclamation of success, “It’s alive”, has gone down in history as one of the most famous dialogues. Imagine if it was actually achievable. Moreover, there are many feats science considers possible but discourages due to ethical and moral dilemmas. The possibility of limb transplant alone can change so many lives. Imagine if whole body transplants were possible.

Furthermore, Sergio Canavero is an Italian neurosurgeon who claims to be able to successfully perform a human head transplant by the year 2017. Mr. Canavero says that the process will take less than a day. The chances for success for this project are 90% according to the doctor. While, he mentioned a minimal risk involved in this process.

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Most noteworthy, The volunteer for head transplant experiment is, 30 year old Russian. Valery Spiridinov. Mr. Spiridinov, suffers from Werdnig Hoffman disease. A muscle wasting condition that has seriously diminished his physical capabilities and left him wheelchair bound.

Valery Spirindov believes in Mr. Canavero’s capabilities and said that it was important to gather international support from the medical community. Moreover, he said in an interview in 2005 that if he has a chance of fully replacement he will get rid of the limits and be more independent.